How it works

Host a Wellington Pleasure Party – Fun, Real & Judgment-Free

At Totally Pleasure Parties, there’s no pressure, no awkward sales pitches—just real, honest talk about intimacy, self-discovery, and pleasure.

You and your guests will get hands-on (and have a giggle!) with a curated collection of pleasure products—from beautiful vibrators and couples’ toys to sexual wellness essentials and luxurious lingerie. Everything is expertly chosen to help you feel confident, informed, and curious.

We’re here to answer all your questions, spark open conversations, and help you find what works for your body and your desires.

We proudly welcome people of all genders, sexualities, and identities. Our events are inclusive, LGBTQIA+ friendly, and designed to be a safe, respectful space for everyone to explore pleasure and wellness at their own pace.


How to Host a Pleasure Party in Wellington

Hosting with us is easy and fun! All you need is:

  • A group of 8–10 friends interested in exploring new toys and sexual wellness in a relaxed and welcoming environment
  • A private space (your home or a venue—we can come to you!)
  • A desire to have fun, learn, and maybe try something new

We’ll bring everything—products, knowledge, good vibes—and help create an unforgettable night. Whether you’re celebrating a hens party, birthday, or just want a unique night in, Totally Pleasure Parties delivers the ultimate Wellington sex toy party experience.


Intimate Couples Sessions in Wellington – Tailored Pleasure & Connection

Looking to deepen intimacy, explore new sensations, and bring more pleasure into your relationship? Our private couples’ sessions in Wellington offer a discreet, empowering experience—designed just for you and your partner.

Whether you're new to pleasure products or looking to try something different together, Totally Pleasure Parties provides expert advice, personalised guidance, and a carefully selected range of sex toys for couples, all in a relaxed, respectful setting.

Your 1:1 Couples Intimacy Experience

Step 1: Let’s Chat First

Before your session, we’ll have a quick, friendly phone consultation. This helps us understand:

  • Your comfort levels
  • Sexual wellness goals
  • Any boundaries or preferences

This ensures your experience is tailored to your relationship and focused on your shared desires.

Step 2: Secure Your Booking

A small deposit confirms your session and allows us to prepare a fully customised selection of products just for you. Once received, your session is officially booked into our diary.

Step 3: Enjoy a Safe, Professional & Respectful Session

Your consultant will guide you through:

  • Popular sex toys for couples from brands like Share Satisfaction, & Satisfyer
  • Sensual wellness tips to boost connection and confidence
  • Honest, open discussion about what works best for you as a couple

We provide education and product recommendations only—consultants do not engage in any physical activity. If at any point a consultant feels unsafe or disrespected, the session will end immediately.

Step 4: Companion for Safety

For safety, your consultant may be accompanied by a discreet support person. This will not interfere with your experience—the focus remains entirely on you and your partner’s journey of discovery.


Why Book an Intimate Couples Session?

  • Deepen emotional and physical intimacy
  • Explore new pleasure techniques and tools in a safe space
  • Private, non-judgmental and LGBTQIA+ inclusive
  • Access expert insights and curated couples sex toys from top brands

Ready to explore together?

Book your Intimate Couples Session in Wellington today and take your connection—and your pleasure—to the next level.