Our Events

Totally Pleasure Parties – Events That Celebrate Pleasure & Connection

At Totally Pleasure Parties, we’re all about creating fun, empowering, and unforgettable experiences that celebrate pleasure, connection, and confidence. From interactive toy parties to cheeky drag bingo nights and exclusive workshops, our events are designed to bring people together in a relaxed, safe, and inclusive environment.

Whether you’re flying solo, coming along with friends, or attending with a partner, our events are the perfect way to learn, laugh, explore, and discover.

Our Events

    Drag queens in colorful outfits with a red curtain background, holding drinks.

    Totally Pleasure Parties – Events That Celebrate Pleasure & Connection

    What You Can Expect at Our Events

    Exclusive Access to Pleasure Products – Try, touch, and explore the latest adult toys, lingerie, and romance products in a no-pressure setting.

    Expert Tips & Intimate Advice – Learn from our knowledgeable hosts and special guests about pleasure, relationships, and sexual wellness.

    Drag Queen Magic & Live Entertainment – Collaborating with incredible Wellington queens like Selina Simone and Olivia Dreams, we bring you shows that sparkle, entertain, and empower.

    Fun, Safe, and Inclusive Spaces – Everyone is welcome. Our events are judgement-free zones where pleasure is celebrated.

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    Coming Up

    • Not Your Nana's Market

      5th October 2025 - Brewtown
      Are you ready for a unique and thrilling experience? Look no further! We invite you to the most captivating event of the year - the Creepy-Cute, Witchy, Kinky, Sexy, LGBTQIA+ Friendly Alternative Art and Craft Market!

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    • Kapiti Women's Expo

      2nd November 2025

      Get ready for a vibrant day out at the Kapiti Women's Expo – a fantastic community event where businesses come together to showcase their products and services. Just in time for your Christmas shopping, this is the perfect chance to discover unique gifts, connect with makers and service providers, and support your local economy.

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    • Fetish Bazaar

      9th November 20205

      Turn Up the Heat at the Fetish Bazaar

      Curious, kinky, or somewhere in between? Come find us at the Totally Pleasure Parties table for toys that tease, tools that thrill, and tips to take your play to the next level.

    Past Events

    • Advertisement for a fundraising event at The Gallery Tattoo Studio, featuring tattoos and related products.

      Inked & Intimate

      26 July 2025 - A day of unfiltered fun and artistic expression.

    • Promotional poster for a event with a drag queen and event details.

      Sip & Sin

      5th May 2025 - A Night of Naughty Cocktails & Camp Chaos

    • Kapiti Wedding Expo

      6th April 2025 - Let’s talk about adding a little spice to your wedding night (and beyond.⁠